So You Really Need Love, do you?

Hello,

Lately, I enjoyed many, many writings on "Love" (all 13 different kinds). Most of it is a nice read. Everything I have looked at was extremely informative about what one should do, but totally lacking in how to do it. I am quite curious and would like to make a comment, relay a story and then ask a question.

Category one(C2) words such as Love, trust, respect, honor, etc. are one type of word.

They are not a Category two (C1) word like chair, car, table, filing cabinet another type of word.

C1-Words that can be touched with the physical hand already have a concrete definition that can be understood with out necessary further definition or rules to determine the meaning.

C2-Words can not be touched with the physical hand and do not have a concrete definition associated with it. Therefore C1-Words need more definition and understanding of the rule structure.

Reading what people have written about the C1-Word "Love" reminds me of a conversation that took place on an airplane between three passengers. One passenger said, "He just doesn't love me." The second passenger responded, "It is hard to get anyone to love each other." The third passenger asked, "What is Love?"

The first two passengers spoke many words about the effect of what love is but they were unable to put into words exactly what love is. They had no useful definition. No wonder others couldn't love them, they had no meaning definition of the word. They argued or discussed this the whole plane trip. They did not come up with a workable definition of what love is. (A workable definition would be something that 12 jurors could agree upon.) What it is, not what it does.

Before I ask the question, I'm reminded what a colleague once said, "There is no such thing as love. It is all a state of being and not to many people know how to do it. They know about it, like it, love it, talk about it, know why it is important, know what it is but they have no clue as to how to do love."

So my question to you is:

What are your rules for love? In other words what has to be there so that you personally know it is love? What is your practical definition what are the steps so that an actor could take the steps (internally and externally) and feel and demonstrate love?

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